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Originally Posted by Ziggy

Mama told you boys like some more booty to hold at night?
Well maybe more than one would be ok:cool:

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Originally Posted by Eli

I think the theme behind this thread was lost


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Bootilicious

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Originally Posted by Ziggy

Bootilicious

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Bootilicious no skin and bones.


How was your day with your dad?

Fun no frustration?


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Originally Posted by Eli

Bootilicious no skin and bones.


How was your day with your dad?

Fun no frustration?


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Last night was complete misery after a few hours of nice time...today he's napping more but the misery usually happens later in the day.

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Originally Posted by Ziggy

Last night was complete misery after a few hours of nice time...today he's napping more but the misery usually happens later in the day.

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I don't mean to make light of a really difficult situation, but is there anything you can do to make it less difficult? Are you alone? Can you have a back up person for moral support? I know your father is going through a lot, but so are you and the rest of your family.


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Originally Posted by Eli

I don't mean to make light of a really difficult situation, but is there anything you can do to make it less difficult? Are you alone? Can you have a back up person for moral support? I know your father is going through a lot, but so are you and the rest of your family.


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Next step is a care facility, which we are trying to avoid for him but trying to do it has weighed heavily on all the family.

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Originally Posted by Ziggy

Next step is a care facility, which we are trying to avoid for him but trying to do it has weighed heavily on all the family.

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We had the same dilemma with my grandfather. My grandmother, aunts and uncles were just emotionally drained bc they didn't know how to care for him, but felt guilty about letting the professionals take over. They finally did and he was way better off. He had around the clock care and we were able to visit him when ever we wanted without the concern of whether or not he was getting what he needs.


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Originally Posted by Eli

We had the same dilemma with my grandfather. My grandmother, aunts and uncles were just emotionally drained bc they didn't know how to care for him, but felt guilty about letting the professionals take over. They finally did and he was way better off. He had around the clock care and we were able to visit him when ever we wanted without the concern of whether or not he was getting what he needs.


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Thats where I'm at. I can't do it much longer and its quite possible I could do something wrong. If he's being cared for properly then visits would be more joyful instead of dreading it.

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Originally Posted by Ziggy

Thats where I'm at. I can't do it much longer and its quite possible I could do something wrong. If he's being cared for properly then visits would be more joyful instead of dreading it.

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It sure is, quality is more important than quantity. We were all surprised at the things my grandfather needed that we didn't know. Keep in mind we have 3 doctors in my family and they didn't even know how to care for him bc it's not what they practice. When you're ready, don't feel guilty, just spend as much time as you can with him.


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...that Force no Prock.


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...Eli, no boyfriend! 😛


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Originally Posted by Stainless

...Eli, no boyfriend! 😛


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No kidding...except my sister coerced me into a semi-blind date next week. She insists I'm an asshole magnet and I'm not allowed to decide who I can date anymore. I'm going to try it her way and see what happens. It can't get more fucked up than my last effort. My cousin's ER doctor friend is next. So, I guess I'm going on a few dates next week. I just hate dating. It feels like a job interview. Jumping back on the horse...


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Asshole magnet...😛


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Originally Posted by Eli

No kidding...except my sister coerced me into a semi-blind date next week. She insists I'm an asshole magnet and I'm not allowed to decide who I can date anymore. I'm going to try it her way and see what happens. It can't get more fucked up than my last effort. My cousin's ER doctor friend is next. So, I guess I'm going on a few dates next week. I just hate dating. It feels like a job interview. Jumping back on the horse...


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Just watch out for backing into the horse backward :smilies_mit_hut002:


One day you will find a good guy in the same boat that just wants a nice relaxing relationship. Until then, hit it and quit it

You must be looking in the wrong places.

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Originally Posted by rivergames

Just watch out for backing into the horse backward :smilies_mit_hut002:


One day you will find a good guy in the same boat that just wants a nice relaxing relationship. Until then, hit it and quit it

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Hahahaha I'll make sure I don't go backwards.

I'd like to believe you're right. I must say, when he finds me he's going to reap the benefits of all the assholes I've dealt with, shit if he's just nice and thoughtful he'll already be ahead of the game and be greatly appreciated. I'll make sure he knows it everyday and as often as possible. ;) 😉

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Originally Posted by 314joey

You must be looking in the wrong places.

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I am looking in the wrong places. That's why from now on, my sisters and cousins will be doing the looking. I also need to stop making excuses for the giant red flags.


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Originally Posted by Eli

Hahahaha I'll make sure I don't go backwards.

I'd like to believe you're right. I must say, when he finds me he's going to reap the benefits of all the assholes I've dealt with, shit if he's just nice and thoughtful he'll already be ahead of the game and be greatly appreciated. I'll make sure he knows it everyday and as often as possible. ;) 


I am looking in the wrong places. That's why from now on, my sisters and cousins will be doing the looking. I also need to stop making excuses for the giant red flags.


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I think you hit the nail on the head above. I use to do the same thing with people as a whole not just relationships. It cost me much aggravation. 6 Years later I am happily married to a fantastic woman, have a 10 month old baby girl, great relationships with my older daughters and great friends. Some of the friends have been around much more than 6 years but there was a lot of purging along the way.

You can be happy. It takes a lot of work and being honest with yourself. No Excuses!!

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I think you hit the nail on the head above. I use to do the same thing with people as a whole not just relationships. It cost me much aggravation. 6 Years later I am happily married to a fantastic woman, have a 10 month old baby girl, great relationships with my older daughters and great friends. Some of the friends have been around much more than 6 years but there was a lot of purging along the way.

You can be happy. It takes a lot of work and being honest with yourself. No Excuses!!

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Thank you! I really appreciate it. It can get so discouraging. I've met your wife and she is fantastic that's for sure. You're right no more excuses and no more not being honest with myself. Follow my damn gut instincts already.


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Originally Posted by rivergames

Just watch out for backing into the horse backward :smilies_mit_hut002:


One day you will find a good guy in the same boat that just wants a nice relaxing relationship. Until then, hit it and quit it

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Pump him and dump him!