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				I wanna go back to my 20's. 
			
		 
	 
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					  Originally Posted by  Eli
					 
				 
				2013 was one of my favorite years. I learned life has no limits or boundaries. My only limitations are what I place on myself.  I also really got a grasp of the fact that being alone is a physical state...being lonely is a state of mind. I'll never be lonely again.  
My 20's I worked so hard it was insane, worked full time and went to school full time, then law school, first five years I practiced law my short work days were 12 hours long.  But, I must admit my most memorable day was being sworn into the CA Bar. I was so proud to have accomplished my biggest goal in life, as I was being sworn in by the federal justice tears started pouring down my eyes, I resorted to just mouthing the words because I could no longer get them out. My older sister and I were sworn in the same day. I don't think there was a more proud parent in the room than my mother. We asked Judge Cannon to swear us in at the same time (you get sworn in by federal justice and then a state judge) and Judge Cannon says "this is my first threesome" my sister and I couldn't stop laughing. Mother had no clue what that meant and I'm guessing neither did Judge Cannon. 
 
2009-2011...was like living a nightmare, but it made me realize how strong I am and not to sweat the small stuff.  Life's too short to be miserable.  If you're not adding to my life in a positive way, don't let the door hit you on the ass when I kick you out    
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  Eli, does the name Gilbert Ochoa ring a bell. He was a D.A. in Orange Co. at one time and probably a Judge by now. I use to go surfing with Gilbert years ago and suddenly life goes on...   Congrats on reaching your goals truly an accomplishment.
						 
					 
					
				 
			 
			
			
		 
	 
		
	 
 
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							Varies for me. 
The last 2 years (mid to late 30's) have been great watching my daughter grow and my oldest step-son getting accepted and attending college. I would say the last 3 years have been the best years for the family and career.  Prior to meeting my wife, I would say 25-30 was awesome when I was single; I was a IT consultant living the House of Lies stereotype for consultants (work hard and party harder when not working), but my girlfriends were front desk staff at hotels I lived in and when I was home at my place it was very lonely.  Glad I stopped doing that and met my wife at 30.
						 
					 
					
				 
			 
			
			
		 
	 
		
	 
 
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					  Originally Posted by  nowski
					 
				 
				Eli, does the name Gilbert Ochoa ring a bell. He was a D.A. in Orange Co. at one time and probably a Judge by now. I use to go surfing with Gilbert years ago and suddenly life goes on...   Congrats on reaching your goals truly an accomplishment. 
			
		 
	 
 The name doesn't ring a bell. I've had very few cases in OC and when I did they were all in the Complex litigation Dept. I may run into him in the future as I'm no longer going to be in the CLD.  
 
Thank you, I'm very goal oriented, I won't let anyone/anything stop me. So when I accomplish a goal, I just feel like a million bucks. But, there's always another goal lined up quickly.  
 
 
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					  Originally Posted by  28eliminator
					 
				 
				Good for you Eli!! 
 
 
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					  Originally Posted by  djunkie
					 
				 
				I wanna go back to my 20's. 
			
		 
	 
 I wouldn't go back to my 20's I was a broke college student, then an even more broke law school student, everything stressed me out, and I was a perfectionist. I didn't appreciate life.  
 
Now, I'm thrilled just to stand on a surf board, at work while everyone is bitching about how hard their job is, I smile and give them a "why you're lucky to be here" fact and help them see the positive side.  
 
Life is awesome! If it gets better than today, fuck I'm the luckiest person I know!  
 
 
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					  Originally Posted by  Eli
					 
				 
				I wouldn't go back to my 20's I was a broke college student, then an even more broke law school student, everything stressed me out, and I was a perfectionist. I didn't appreciate life.  
 
Now, I'm thrilled just to stand on a surf board, at work while everyone is bitching about how hard their job is, I smile and give them a "why you're lucky to be here" fact and help them see the positive side.  
 
Life is awesome! If it gets better than today, fuck I'm the luckiest person I know!  
 
 
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 My 20's were awesome. I had a great job. A ton of friends. I had a bunch of money in the bank. I lived at home for very cheap. I came and went as I wanted. Was at the river 2 or 3 weekends out of the month. Had a cool truck and boat. Always had a chick a phone call away. It was good times for sure.
						 
					 
					
				 
			 
			
			
		 
	 
		
	 
 
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							The 20's were good. The first half of them I partied hard and banged anything walked. I met Mrs. Daytona at 23 and settled down a little and bought my first house at 25. The 30's were great. I got married at 30 and by 35 I was a millionaire (short lived). Mrs. D and I pretty much bought and did everything we wanted to and were still young enough to really enjoy it. 39-40 sucked ass!!! Within the course of a year I lost my business, one of my best friends, my dog, pretty much everything I owned and I was told I had cancer. It seemed like every time I asked "what else could possibly go wrong?" it got worse. My 40's are getting to be fun but only because I've embraced the fact that I'm not 20 anymore.
						 
					 
					
				 
			 
			
			
		 
	 
		
	 
 
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					  Originally Posted by  GRADS
					 
				 
				The 20's were good. The first half of them I partied hard and banged anything walked. I met Mrs. Daytona at 23 and settled down a little and bought my first house at 25. The 30's were great. I got married at 30 and by 35 I was a millionaire (short lived). Mrs. D and I pretty much bought and did everything we wanted to and were still young enough to really enjoy it. 39-40 sucked ass!!! Within the course of a year I lost my business, one of my best friends, my dog, pretty much everything I owned and I was told I had cancer. It seemed like every time I asked "what else could possibly go wrong?" it got worse. My 40's are getting to be fun but only because I've embraced the fact that I'm not 20 anymore. 
			
		 
	 
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