I have a question:

Last Friday I went to a bar where a friend is the bartender, started talking to the guy sitting next to me. I have zero interest in dating the guy. He made a few subtle attempts which I turned turned down and then before he left he had his liquid courage ask me for my number…UGH! I didn't know what to say. I know I will run into him again at the bar, so I caved and gave it to him…actually he didn't ask he said, "write down your number for me". Well he called me about 15 minutes after leaving and left some obscure message, then he text me and a few hours later he called again. Now here's my pickle…I never called back or responded to the text, I'm just not one for reply to drunk people.

1. I enjoy going out and talking to people, but that doesn't necessarily mean I want to date them or hook up. How do I say "I'm not interested" without lying or being mean?

2. Also, what do I tell this guy when I run into him again? I like the bar and want to go back.

3. Why aren't the ones I like responsive?