Quote Originally Posted by Eli View Post
Hahahaha I'll make sure I don't go backwards.

I'd like to believe you're right. I must say, when he finds me he's going to reap the benefits of all the assholes I've dealt with, shit if he's just nice and thoughtful he'll already be ahead of the game and be greatly appreciated. I'll make sure he knows it everyday and as often as possible.


I am looking in the wrong places. That's why from now on, my sisters and cousins will be doing the looking. I also need to stop making excuses for the giant red flags.


Sent from my Bat Cave
I think you hit the nail on the head above. I use to do the same thing with people as a whole not just relationships. It cost me much aggravation. 6 Years later I am happily married to a fantastic woman, have a 10 month old baby girl, great relationships with my older daughters and great friends. Some of the friends have been around much more than 6 years but there was a lot of purging along the way.

You can be happy. It takes a lot of work and being honest with yourself. No Excuses!!