I had a paralegal friend give me all the necessary paperwork, I filled mine out, the ex filled hers out. Our divorce wasn't as easy as yours should be, we had property and business together but I insisted on no attorneys(she didn't listen and got fucked), oh well, finally got her to pull her head out and move forward, my divorce took ALONG time but it's been final for nearly 2 months now. If your ex is being uncooperative file your papers and let the paralegal and court deal with serving her.