Lol!! Bruce, I'm sending a therapist over! :D
I grew up learning to ski at age 6. When our family went boating it was to ski not to socialize (we socialized plenty at home). When we attended boat races it wasn't to socialize, it was to watch the races.
When I got old enough to get my 1st boat it was much like the cars I had at the time. Make it faster and go have fun running it and looking for races.
Into my 20's, I realized I really didn't have the love for skiing like my dad so I did less and less of it. My enjoyment came from racing across the water either alone or next to someone and if some chicks happened along well, it was time to socialize. :D
When I got with boating clubs (25 years old) I noticed that the club guys enjoyed the social aspects, but the subject matter stayed boats (the common bond). I feel like some of you folks are like a bunch of kids bragging about what you drank the night before which doesn't interest me in the least. Anybody can obliterate themselves with alcohol so what makes it something to brag about?
I've been on havasu and parker for many 3 day weekends, but those trips were purely for trim trolling as I knew the crowds would ruin the water.
Socializing is fine, but for me it's not why I go boating or click on boating sites. I might participate occasionally in social sections, but it's not why I'm here.